I didn't know what to blog today and I realize that blogging is not really typing out a diary it's about how you want to talk about something or some specific topic not some personal stuff, of course that doesn't mean you can't do a blog like it's your personal diary but too public for a dairy? Although nobody reads or knows I am back to blogging now. I seems to enjoy every bit of blogging! I didn't know why and what makes me want to blog..
Understandings
I bet most teenagers are dating nowadays and so am I but it really doesn't matter whether you're in a relationship or just single (nobodycares) LOL because being the nice girlfriend is hard that's why sometimes relationship don't work out sometimes.
Girls,
Some girls, just some girls including myself always tend to think a lot until I created some problems which is not even there at the first place & then we argue and end up being lonely and mad for the whole night not to forget wasting tears all night long. This is nature (I personally think so) woman are the sexiest living thing on earth I bet? Which makes the reason why men goes for girls one after another because everyone is beautiful in their own way.
But lets make things clear,
IT'S NOT OKAY WHEN YOU HAVE MORE THAN ONE GIRLFRIEND UNLESS SHE ACCEPTS THE 3RD PARTY.
I am not trying to say that I am not someone who knows everything about WOMEN or GIRLS I am just trying to say what's on my mind. Boys, or I shall say men should take the time to let the ones they love knows that he will always be there for her because insecurities really do spoils the whole relationship.
I can say that I am not a "control-freak" as you want to know every single thing or just to stop him from doing this or doing that because the other way round you wouldn't want him telling you to do this and that. We all
By saying of course it is easy, but when you're going through this whole "recovery" process minutes feels like years. I am not even joking because I've been there and I know it's super hard especially when you're hiding it from your family.
Girls tend to cry more than boys a 100times sorry but this is hell true!
It's not because we are cry babies it's just because the ones that we love turns out to be the ones that hurt us the most. Being a protective boyfriend is good but not overprotective (it's annoying)
Girls, please know where you stand in his "pack" schedule.
If he's not making time for you or always having excuses to bring you out for a date I think we might have a problem with that! I don't mean it's a must to see him every freaking day but at least (the very very very very least) once a month? LOL I don't know how if I am being put into this situation where I only get to see my boyfriend once a month maybe it is possible when he's a really busy pilot or whatever that he will never be in his own country for more than 1 week then I don't think I can kept this relationship going on.
I don't mean that dating a pilot or just so happen your love is overseas studying or working overseas will never happens to work out in a relationship, if you're able to go through it then I bet it's going to be true love.
I am 18 this year and I have been dating my current boyfriend when I was just 14 :) We grew up together and of course we have been through ups and downs and nobody said that every relationship is easy!
We have already gotten into the comfort zone where we don't mind telling each other everything and we don't lie, flirt and cheat. That's the point and this is what makes me loves him so much.
Personally I think the boy's family is much more easier to accept when he told his family he got a girlfriend as compared to a girl's family unless you have a really (open-minded) family. Being (open-minded) meaning they accept and know that this is the fact and nothing is going to change so they will never go against it.
Being honest is good, sometimes people just have to accept the fact that not every parent can accept their daughter or son dating in an early age. Keeping (personal stuff) away from your parents is normal to me, I think like that because we need our own space somehow just so you know by all those "personal stuff" I don't mean by gambling or doing drugs or ...
I do not know which status people prefer to be in and I don't care too. The most important thing is that you yourself know what you want for your life because nobody is going to take responsibility when you get hurt.
If you're being with someone that couldn't even accept you then there's no point trying to work this shit out. How can you ever date someone who never can accept the original you?
You are beautiful no matter what status you're in because..
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